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Farm and home cook book and housekeeper's assistant

1907

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Presented as published in 1907. Historical recipes may not meet modern food-safety standards. Cook from the modern interpretation, not the original instructions.
quietly removing the empty plates. Always serve full plates and remove empty plates from tlie right, but in presenting dishes or platters for the individual to help himself, serve from the left. After the soup course the meat, vegetables and potatoes, which, already dished, had been left in the warming oven, may be placed on the table and be served individually by the appointed waiter, or passed around from hand to hand, the waiter removing the plates, dishes and platters after this course, and placing the dessert plates and dessert. All extra plates and cups and saucers, and everything necessary for serving the meal, should be in readiness on a little side table or side board, before beginning the meal, and the empty plates and dishes and platters removed noiselessly and carried out on a big tray, so as to save running about as much as possible, which would otherwise create an undesirable air of confusion. All these directions may sound rather formidable, and seem rather too much for everyday use, when "hustle" is the watchword, but they are in reality most easily carried out, if everything is done with precision according to a fixed system, by trained and willing hands. It is only by con- stantly practising good manners that one can become thor- oughly conversant with them, and it is both elevating and inspiring to do one's best, always, and to cultivate refinement in all we say and do. * Table Manners It should be counted an unpardonable offense to appear at table any other way but clean. No matter how heavy or dirty the work one must do, water and soap, and a comb and clothes brush will help one to "spruce up" in a few minutes. The practice of cleanliness inspires respect and promotes self- respect. It is decidedly worth while to cultivate both. When men have been working in the fields and their boots are plastered with earth or ill-smelling matter, let them remove the boots and slip into a handy pair of slippers. The change is restful to the feet and takes but a few minutes to accom- plish. In like manner children should be taught the gospel of cleanliness. Let the conversation at table be bright and cheery, and on no account let troublesome or unpleasant subjects be broached, nor permit any personal grievances to be aired. The state of mind has considerable to do with the digestion, which in turn affects nutrition. To adapt a scriptural passage;. 214 FARM AND HOME COOK BOOK "Better a crust with a happy spirit, than a full meal with contention." Teach the children to be quiet in voice and manners, not to make a "sucking" noise when drinking soup, to take the soup from the side of the spoon, not to tip their plates, nor spread the contents over the edge of the plates, to handle forks and knives properly and never to put the latter in their mouths, or use it to convey food to their mouths, not to "play" with the dishes or food, not to drink with the mouth full of food, to thoroughly chew and swallow each mouthful, and to make as little noise as possible all through the process of eating their meals.